I get questions every day from people just like you, who want guidance on how to do the right thing in LGBT social situations, from coming out to family to bringing a partner to the office holiday party to divvying up the expenses in a summer share. They have one thing in common: they reflect a desire to be fair and gracious, and to find solutions that leave everyone feeling respected. Queeries are real questions from visitors to this site (and to Facebook.com/gaymanners), on topics that range from how to handle a one-night stand to whether you can ask your parents to pay for your same-sex wedding. Feel free to ask your own questions, too — you’ll surely have them as you navigate the ever-changing waters of gay life.